Your Biggest Hater

I'm sure everyone is aware of the fact that everybody... Yes, every single body has haters... Whether you are successful or not or on the road to success, you will encounter haters along the way who will do any and everything to hinder you from reaching your desired goal or enjoying your success. They like to hit you with the "what ifs" and the "impossible" lines to discourage you and your determined self always has the right response for them. "I got this", "You just a hater", or this one, "Shout Out to my haters,I'm here today cuz of them". That one is a favorite of mine.

Back to my first point that says everyone has haters. I even have a few people that I hate on. They are as follows: Kobe Bryant, Justin Bieber, Sasha and Malia and others I will spare right now. Lol. Even new born babies who know nobody when they come in the world have haters but I won't go into detail... Lol. But of all these haters, there is only one that can determine if you actually progress or decline in whatever you set out to accomplish. And it lives right inside all of us.

Ladies and Gentlemen, meet your MINDS!! Yup, your minds. This little hater is the biggest of them all and it will not only speak to you but also try to hinder you or trigger you to act on something. Y'all know the song that starts off with "My minds telling me no!!" Yup! Kinda like that. No need for further details on a Thursday evening.

Okay in all seriousness though, its good to be positive and I know a bunch of us strive to be positive but the mind is a very strong entity that can play tricks on us. Haters will say stuff to us and we would brush it off like it was nothing but if your mind starts saying things to you like "You don't have what it takes" or "you'll never get that job", it is strange but we tend to listen to that little voice in our head and it could be dangerous sometimes as it would determine a lot of things. Confidence for one maybe dented if you let that little voice in your head discourage you and we all know how important confidence is.

But there is good news. As you have power over your haters, you also have power over that voice in your head. Many may think its corny and stupid but speaking positively to yourself goes a long way to helping you overcome the power of the mind. Not only that, speaking positively can actually switch up your mind from your biggest hater to your greatest ally!! Yup. You will be shocked that your mind will start to say things like "Maybe it is possible" or statements like "Go For It!" A lot of us may doubt this. Even as I type, I still have my doubts but some wise saying goes thus: "When You Speak Positively, You Will Begin to See Hope in Your Situations and Find Strength to Overcome" And this goes for Exams, Interviews, Weight Loss Challenges, Games, Relationships, Friendships, Sports and anything that requires you to use that mind of yours. Long story short? Stay Positive! If you cant be positive, be quiet cuz being quiet is way better than being negative cuz some people still successfully get on haters' nerves by ignoring them! But don't be quiet for too long. Speak Positively and all your haters, even the biggest one that is the mind will start to come around and cheer you on!

I still hate Kobe though.


BIGTYME OUT!!!